Issues That Come With Dating A Mexican..

hey there folks welcome back to our Channel what was that? two weeks in the past we created a online video in which Joss was talking about the down sides which come with dating a German with dating him, exclusively nicely.. properly today we’re going to… are you presently okay? We have allergic reaction guy! right now we’re about to transform it close to and I’m about to inform you all the problems which come with dating a Mexican far more specifically, this specific one on this page I’m so fearful of this movie! I’m going to get offended big time nevertheless i know you adore I and me know you confidentially enjoy all of those aspects of me you imagine so? I’m sure not all of them… how dare you dude due to the fact like I explained before: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I love Mexicans. I really like this exclusively Mexico is definitely a diversified country and tend to be the folks.. of course that’s quite accurate we can be found in every single color, personality, shape and form so we don’t desire to generalize anything at all.. we’re not professing that each and every Mexican does those activities! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem bbw u you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! expect to satisfy about 100 or 200 people in one day that are part of the family that happen to be only section of the household! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the foodstuff you will get bodyweight and this is caused by two things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! plus in addition to that it’s hard to say no because Mexican meals is super delicious Oh yeah my lord I miss it so much… make sure you send me Enchiladas Potosinas you should! for me personally way too make sure you one more reason why you’re about to get fat due to the food is due to the fact it’s cost effective compared to Germany true! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m basically also later I’m like Mexican.. you’re one half Mexican that’s in fact a stereotype i loathe I dislike when folks let me know: you’re gonna be delayed simply because you’re Mexican but I’m later at all times! even if I consider my greatest… that’s one thing I’ve battled with permanently the next point i were required to get accustomed to a great deal: you can find afraid while driving a car I don’t wish to drive in Mexico and also whenever your companion, in this case she, is driving Mexico you, think that: in which are definitely the regulations? where are definitely the facial lines on the ground that tell you through which lane you have to go along with the slots guy oh my lord there may be one particular neighborhood I have to take whenever I go to my house it has countless slots.. I learned them my center I’m like… when you get with an intersection there is not actually a guideline saying that can go initially Indeed! – there are no indications you always let me know, the one inside the biggest road may go initial but for whatever reason every one of the Mexicans know where to push it’s good sense bro! it absolutely was the most detrimental in Mexico Metropolis there was a single super hectic streets so we have been provided by a compact neighborhood and all of the individuals from your small road have been just proceeding such as this close to all the other autos in Mexico Town I found living move through my go for real like 7 instances along with the individuals of your ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the elements nowadays? conversing with us ultimately is in fact fairly amazing since Mexicans truly learn how to travel in insane conditions! fine the following stage is actually a humorous a single but also an unfortunate one.. often for squares of lavatory paper is perhaps all that you’ll get where have you experience that? seriously! we were within a industry in Mexico Town and so i wished for to attend the bathroom which gentleman in front literally provided several squares of toilet pieces of paper in this article, do your thing! and that i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and I informed him: may i have another? I didn’t know this is an issue for you personally I mean in Germany you can find potty document correct near the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico also! yeah okay that doesn’t occur frequently.. I actually have to express this took place like twice to me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: number one or number 2? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is simply how they are they’re this way… so don’t obtain your dreams up… -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not letting him head out! ” which is a tiny bit an excessive amount of men but… do i need to help remind you of yesterday? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -fine you might be like.. and when I began dating you I was like “incredible a whole new w0rld! ” I actually have a concept although and so i know this is gonna cause me to sound insane but hear me out I seem like a lot of this contemplating is molded by telenovelas. Don’t appear to me! have you viewed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are incredibly extraordinary and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never gonna consider him away from me! ” the reason why this girl staring at you? this foolish $·%·” footnote: It has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense.., guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly. If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect that’s and sleepovers a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany folks can remain with the girlfriend’s residence or girls can tell the boyfriend’s house regardless if they’re lower than 18, almost certainly 16 they are able to stop at the girlfriends of boyfriend’s property sinners! and then in Mexico believe that the most detrimental of men and women, that they are doing a little extremely bad items that they cannot do elsewhere one of the more repeated information I get from lovers is young girls that happen to be desperately requesting me how do you make Janik know that he are unable to keep? or how can I make my moms and dads recognize? it’s so hard. -it’s challenging for us as well -indeed each side simply because at the start you couldn’t comprehend it you were like “I don’t have it” I found myself 22 or 23 years of age whenever we started off dating and that i was like “I’m so aged and so i cannot remain in the same area as her” and my sibling is even old and her boyfriend couldn’t continue to be there I’m a mature. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!